Sorority Girls: Hollywood vs. Reality

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by Oh Boi

... Why am I here? That question wasn't very bright, either. I'm here to chat just like you are. I'm not sure why I was banned though.

If you were banned, it was because you are a pig.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by Oh Boi

I didn't know you were a Kappa Delta. I can post pictures to prove my point if needed. I don't think I'm too good for anyone, though.


Maybe I said something I shouldn't have, but I don't recall that.

I'm going assume for the sake argument that you really are clueless and not a troll. I doubt it, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I've known a few stupid, creepy guys who needed an education.

Here's where you are going wrong:

1. You assume that women in old movies represent some sort of reality. They're not. They're idealized fantasy images. They always have been. Even in the women in Playboy, gorgeous as they undoubtedly are in real life, are made up, well lit, airbrushed, Photoshopped, and shot in soft focus. There is not time in history in which this was not true.

2. You proceeded to describe Greek women in general as fat and trailer trash. Regardless of whether that was true or not, it's offensive and rude to say something like that to members of the group that you are denigrating. The only thing that it leads to is "No, we're not." "Yes, you are." "No, we're not." "Yes, you are." Gentlemen don't describe women in these terms.

3. When you were told to knock it off and then banned, you came back to double down on your rude, offensive behavior by describing a specific group of Kappa Delta women who you view as "poor white trash." Again, gentlemen don't describe women in these terms.

4. After being so incredibly judgmental and rude that you were BANNED for it, you return you now say that you don't view yourself as better than the women you are judging. Here's a clue: if you judge someone negatively, you are expressing a feeling that you are superior to them and have the right to judge them. By judging the appearance of women, you are relegating them to an inferior role as a sex object.

5. You seem completely unaware that Greek women exist for a reason other than to be sexually appealing to men in general and you in particular. As I said "Be hot" is not in the mission statement of most orgs.