Dual Memberships

[AlwaysSAI]

Originally Posted by andthen

I can tell you that many of the ladies I know probably have stronger bonds with their alumnae chapter sisters, then they had with their own collegiate chapter sisters.

Cosign, because I am one of those women.

I am 1000% closer with my SAI alumnae sisters than I ever was with any collegiate sisters. And, on the flip side, I thought I would be BFFs with some Phi Sigs for ages - thought we'd never lose touch. And, we haven't talked in years. College experience =/= or define alumnae experience.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI

Cosign, because I am one of those women.

I am 1000% closer with my SAI alumnae sisters than I ever was with any collegiate sisters. And, on the flip side, I thought I would be BFFs with some Phi Sigs for ages - thought we'd never lose touch. And, we haven't talked in years. College experience =/= or define alumnae experience.

Some of my favorite KDs are ten years older than me or ten years younger than me. They're awesome, but I never knew them in college. We weren't in the same college cohort.

[33girl]

I do want to say that "member evaluations" are bullshit. Asking girls to rat on their chapter sisters is not cool. And if new initiates were included? Doubly not cool. My guess is that they did the same thing the Tri Deltas did and told hq to put the charter where the sun don't shine.

[carnation]

If your sisters are doing something illegal or something that could harm them, someone needs to know.

Example: most of the hazing stunts that the locals at the last college where I taught were pulling. Someone could've easily been injured or killed.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by carnation

If your sisters are doing something illegal or something that could harm them, someone needs to know.

Example: most of the hazing stunts that the locals at the last college where I taught were pulling. Someone could've easily been injured or killed.

Then you need to report it. Not be grilled on your (or anyone else's) worthiness to be a member. You're comparing apples and oranges.