Need advice about dropping my sorority..

[ASUADPi]

I'm going to be brutally honest right now...

Your attitude about your chapter kind of sucks. You have fallen into the "tent talk" about your chapter.

You obviously don't want to be there. I'm not even sure what your confusion is about. You have said nothing positive about your experience with you chapter or your sisters. If you don't want to be there, you don't need our permission to resign your membership.

FWIW I generally encourge girls, who have something positive to say about their chapter to stay with it and try it out, but I can't in my right mind encourage someone who is talking about their chapter negatively and has no positives about greek life in general, to stay active.

Maybe I'm reading what you said wrong, but that's just my opinion.

[als463]

Originally Posted by ASUADPi

I'm going to be brutally honest right now...

Your attitude about your chapter kind of sucks. You have fallen into the "tent talk" about your chapter.

You obviously don't want to be there. I'm not even sure what your confusion is about. You have said nothing positive about your experience with you chapter or your sisters. If you don't want to be there, you don't need our permission to resign your membership.

FWIW I generally encourge girls, who have something positive to say about their chapter to stay with it and try it out, but I can't in my right mind encourage someone who is talking about their chapter negatively and has no positives about greek life in general, to stay active.

Maybe I'm reading what you said wrong, but that's just my opinion.

Preach! Totally agree with this statement.

[ecstaticboom]

ASUADPi- Yes, my attitude for the chapter wasn't the best a couple weeks ago, but I was in a weird place and was confused about a lot. But after a lot of thinking and talking to members in the chapter, I decided to stay in and think I am going to like it a lot. I just needed some time to be involved with the chapter and be around it more.
Thank you for everyone who tried to help- I was looking for advice and your words helped. I am excited to be staying in the chapter and trying to help it grow and get involved with more.

[etadrisophila]

Originally Posted by ecstaticboom

Thank you for everyone who tried to help- I was looking for advice and your words helped. I am excited to be staying in the chapter and trying to help it grow and get involved with more.

You are welcome! Thanks for coming back to let us know what is happening. I am truly glad that things are going better for you and your sorority.