Got asked who i wanted as my "Big sister" and now i regret answering

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this is at a recruitment event correct?
To have actives ask you that question is absolutely unacceptable in any way, shape or form. You should never be asked who you want as a big outside of private big-little rankings.
I can empathize with how uncomfortable you feel in this situation. If you are asked again, answer that you are unbiased and having actives ask you such candid and frankly illegal rush questions makes you feel uncomfortable and change the subject as quickly as possible