*Bring Ben and Jerry's*
All this relationship and boy talk makes a girl really want the only guys she needs LOL
Seriously my best advice for carolinaDG is to just date the guys, as in hang out. Just because your dating someone doesn't mean it has to be serious, casual dating is a lot more relaxed and fun
justamom- AMEN! You should NEVER change your life for a guy. I mean in the long run yes, but to totally flip your world upside down just to follow around one guy like a little puppy dog is a major problem.
Last of all be friends with guys, just don't date them, I have actually had some of my old boyfriends try to set me up

And the last note, there are TONS of guys out there don't obsesse over one
And heres one other thing to think about
: If you can't love yourself, how are you going to love someone else? Or it was something along tht line that Rupaul said