Well-mannered people know better than to ask about stereotypes or most of the other things you asked about on a public forum, or to mention their "somewhat aristocratic southern family."
And the word is "y'all," not "ya'll."
Not to mention that we do not have aristocracy. I mean, was his grandfather the Duke of Hoover or the Earl of Mongomery?
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