I think Justamom is on thr right track here. Don't apologize unless/until you get back together with the son. If you two get back together you will all get a chuckle out of it. If you two don't, well no one is going to care and you are not going to get back into her good graces anyway.
So don't go rush off to send a letter that will probably be looked at like you are a strange person.
Also, keep in mind your state of mind. You are stressed and hurt, you are probably not sleeping well, so you feeol the need to take immediate action about things. This is not always a good thing. Disconnect your phone for a few days so you don't know if he calls youe not, go sleep over some friends and invest in sleep. Take a deep breath and a step back.
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