Have you been initiated? How many people are in the sorority? If its small, I can see how this would be off putting. But if its more than 75 sisters, then I doubt that all of them party 100% of the time and that some of them don't have other goals, aspirations or other interests that aren't similar to yours. They gave you a bid because they liked you and thought you were a good fit for them.
Often times the girls that party are extroverts and may seem like the face of the sorority. I bet there are some other girls that you may not be seeing because the partiers are so involved.
|