Getting a Big in a Sorority?

[TPA85]

What all does this Big/Little pairing entail? Like does she have to bring you dinner every Thursday, or DD you on Saturday nights..?? Or is this some sort of intra-council pledge period mentoring program?
I'm just confused about what the point is.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by TPA85

What all does this Big/Little pairing entail? Like does she have to bring you dinner every Thursday, or DD you on Saturday nights..?? Or is this some sort of intra-council pledge period mentoring program?
I'm just confused about what the point is.

I don't think it matters. Big brother/little sister (or vice versa) relationships between fraternities and sororities is highly frowned upon (to put it lightly). I don't have extensive details about the history of said relationships, but nowadays it is seen as a huge risk management issue.

[TPA85]

Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

I don't think it matters. Big brother/little sister (or vice versa) relationships between fraternities and sororities is highly frowned upon (to put it lightly). I don't have extensive details about the history of said relationships, but nowadays it is seen as a huge risk management issue.

I realize that. The Risk Management alarm was going off in my head and I was envisioning all the potentially inappropriate things a co-ed Big/Little match could entail. Just wanted to hear from the OP that it's as simple as doing the cooler decorating I've seen on here.. or that she checks up on his grades and does study tables with him.. just to ease my RM-vigilant mind.