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I think the vast majority of NPC members start out with only the surface stuff in mind. That connection builds over time, and even then for most of them it ends with graduation. This is one area the NPHC has it all over the NPC and I think working together on some joint initiatives would be really valuable. Or eye opening at the least.
But there is a deep and pervasive attitude about "winning" at rush. If you get the top chapter on campus you've won, even if they're a bunch of hos who you have nothing in common with. It seems to me this is NOT the way NPHC aspirants perceive the process at all, partly because it is not her expectation to pledge at 18 and also because she knows going in she's going to be an active part of this group for the entire rest of her life. Most NPC pledges (except the ones who frequent here or have mothers who have stayed active, which is a teensy fraction of all pledges), don't even realize there IS sorority life after college.
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