Dual Memberships

Dazed&&Confused · #1 10-15-2013, 12:48 AM

I was a zeta interest for 2 years but during the last 6 months I have realized that I am not a Zeta phi beta woman at heart. I read the book In Search of sisterhood over the summer and my eyes were opened and heart is wanting to be a member of DST. Out of a pure moment of craziness I wrote a very detailed letter to the women of DST expressing my interest in their organization and explained why I am no longer interested in ZPhiB and with shaking hands pressed send! I was never rejected by the Zetas, this is my first semester eligible to be a member of any sorority. I also expressed in the letter that I have ruin all my chances to be a member of anything but DST by sending that letter. I am wondering what do you think my chances are of being considered to be a member of DST? Even if I'm not considered I will not be pledging anything at, I just want to know your thoughts on this.

PersistentDST · #2 10-15-2013, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Dazed&&Confused

I was a zeta interest for 2 years but during the last 6 months I have realized that I am not a Zeta phi beta woman at heart. I read the book In Search of sisterhood over the summer and my eyes were opened and heart is wanting to be a member of DST. Out of a pure moment of craziness I wrote a very detailed letter to the women of DST expressing my interest in their organization and explained why I am no longer interested in ZPhiB and with shaking hands pressed send! I was never rejected by the Zetas, this is my first semester eligible to be a member of any sorority. I also expressed in the letter that I have ruin all my chances to be a member of anything but DST by sending that letter. I am wondering what do you think my chances are of being considered to be a member of DST? Even if I'm not considered I will not be pledging anything at, I just want to know your thoughts on this.

We do not discuss membership on this forum. I suggest you continue to research, and look around your specific campus/community for the answers you seek. It will make your life easier. http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=93413

naraht · #3 10-15-2013, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by PersistentDST

We do not discuss membership on this forum. I suggest you continue to research, and look around your specific campus/community for the answers you seek. It will make your life easier. http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=93413

Quick Note: To make the "We" more specific, I'd say that the NPHC GLOs don't discuss membership on this forum (and that I agree the question very much related to the NPHC GLOs.) However a similar question for non-NPHC groups would be more likely to get a response.

PersistentDST · #4 10-15-2013, 06:41 PM

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Quick Note: To make the "We" more specific, I'd say that the NPHC GLOs don't discuss membership on this forum (and that I agree the question very much related to the NPHC GLOs.) However a similar question for non-NPHC groups would be more likely to get a response.

When I say we...I mean my sorority in which she stated she's interested. If she wasn't so specific I wouldn't have said we.

naraht · #5 10-16-2013, 09:55 AM

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When I say we...I mean my sorority in which she stated she's interested. If she wasn't so specific I wouldn't have said we.

OK, Just thought some clarity might help down the line, because we have people reading these threads with considerably less information. And I completely agree in the response in regards to NPHC. If I had seen the message before you did, I also would have advised talking to a local Delta chapter. However, I'm glad that you were the one to respond given your more intimate knowledge.

PersistentDST · #6 10-16-2013, 10:07 AM

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OK, Just thought some clarity might help down the line, because we have people reading these threads with considerably less information. And I completely agree in the response in regards to NPHC. If I had seen the message before you did, I also would have advised talking to a local Delta chapter. However, I'm glad that you were the one to respond given your more intimate knowledge.

No biggie. I just wanted to make sure I address her, because she posted the same statement in a few other threads as well, and I don't want her sitting here thinking an answer will come this way. LOL!

naraht · #7 10-17-2013, 12:41 PM

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No biggie. I just wanted to make sure I address her, because she posted the same statement in a few other threads as well, and I don't want her sitting here thinking an answer will come this way. LOL!

Could have been worse, *I* could have had the same reaction when I read "In Search of Sisterhood" (I'm male)

Sen's Revenge · #8 10-15-2013, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Dazed&&Confused

I was a zeta interest for 2 years but during the last 6 months I have realized that I am not a Zeta phi beta woman at heart. I read the book In Search of sisterhood over the summer and my eyes were opened and heart is wanting to be a member of DST. Out of a pure moment of craziness I wrote a very detailed letter to the women of DST expressing my interest in their organization and explained why I am no longer interested in ZPhiB and with shaking hands pressed send! I was never rejected by the Zetas, this is my first semester eligible to be a member of any sorority. I also expressed in the letter that I have ruin all my chances to be a member of anything but DST by sending that letter. I am wondering what do you think my chances are of being considered to be a member of DST? Even if I'm not considered I will not be pledging anything at, I just want to know your thoughts on this.