Wondering what to do

[WCsweet<3]

Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

Yes, some chapters have sweethearts, and the like. But eaack, please don't try and push your chapter to vote your bf as their sweetheart! .. or whatever you might call it. Don't read the posts regarding sweethearts to mean that your bf is in a position to be one.

This definitely isn't the route to take if all you want to do is have him wear your letters.

Definitely this. Sorry if I in any way implied this.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by WCsweet<3

Definitely this. Sorry if I in any way implied this.

Ha, yea.. I just didn't want the OP to get the wrong idea!

[aephi alum]

My husband never joined a fraternity, but at some point while we were dating, he learned about the traditions of lavaliering and pinning. We had been dating for a few months when he presented me with a little heart-shaped pendant and told me that, since he was not a member of a fraternity and hence couldn't give me a fraternity lavalier, this pendant was my lavalier - he'd given me his heart <insert sap here>. My chapter treated it like any other lavaliering.

To the OP, my suggestion is to do something similar. What jewelry would your boyfriend wear? Maybe cuff links with your sorority's symbol?

[33girl]

One of my sisters lavaliered her non-Greek boyfriend. However, he was around more and at more events than many sisters were. I don't think this would have gone over as well with just Joe Shmo Random Boyfriend.

If he isn't friends with all your sisters as well as being your boyfriend, I would skip it. Like Titchou said, guys just don't think that way.