Is it normal to regret which sorority you joined?

[*winter*]

Originally Posted by KDCat

Hang in there.

BTW, you might find that a different college/university is a better fit for you overall. I attended a small LAC and a regional university as an undergrad. I had a lot more in common with students at the university than I did with the students at the small LAC. Your fit problem with your chapter might be reflective of an overall fit problem with your school.

THIS! That was my experience in transferring. At CC, everyone is mostly doing their own thing, working and going to school. Of course, there is stuff to get involved with if you'd like, too.

I agree, keep up with therapy, too.

In time, if/when you go back to another 4 year college, consider looking into organizations like my sorority, Gamma Sigma Sigma. It's a service sorority, non-NPC. Just because you can't be in another NPC sorority doesn't mean that you won't be able to be part of a sisterhood again. Obviously we don't offer houses or the whole "experience" but that might make it a better fit for someone like you.