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I think personally that even if you do not have a super-close connection to your sapphire sister... that doesn't prevent you from having deep connections and friendships with other sisters.
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I agree with this. I'm not that close with my sis. we have hung out together in the past, but usually just when other sisters are around too.
I've had 3 littles. I tried reaching out to all of them. (we choose sapphires just by the actives talking with the MOC) I usually ended up getting the NM noone else wanted . That sounds bad, but it's true. I'm bad luck. 2 of them went alum and 1 disaffiliated after 1 semester . It sucks that my family tree is now dead since we are the only ones who can trace our family back to our chapter founder.
I am now really close to 1 sister who was initiated with me and stayed in PHI Sig (there was a third but she went alum after the first yr) and also with a newer sister who will be Archon this year. The two(archon and I) of us are sometimes inseparable. we talk on the phone everyday, she'll even call me at 3am if she feels like it(she works late).
The strangest thing is we are practically opposites...if we were not brought together by Phi Sig we would not be friends since she is not typically the type i'm drawn too. But it's great knowing her and she does broaden my perspective.
and in a month I'll be leaving
i hate making friends then having to move.
I know this post is long enuf, but I just had to mention how awesome it was. I went to a sisters wedding June 22, There were 11 phi sigs present(including bride and 2 bridesmaids) which is great since there are so few actives. Out of the 11, 7 were/are archons!! It was awesome. BTW at weddings we sing Liebestraum to the bride. She requested it, but we were gonna sing it anyway. very lovely
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