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Originally Posted by freedombliss
I'm a new student this semester at Arizona state university. I knew right off the bat that I wanted to be in a sorority, so u decided to do spring recruitment even though only three chapters are recruiting. I went to the first chapters recruitment party, and within a few days I had accepted a bid from them without meeting ANY of the others. All the girls were so nice, but I realized on bid day that I really didn't mesh with them, and that the sorority wasn't for me, but at that point I was too polite to say no. This is a huge commitment, and I need to be fair to myself by picking the house that is best for me, and give them all a fair shot. I want to do fall recruitment, but I know if I drop now that I have to wait an entire year before I can accept another bid. This means that I will have to wait three semesters before I can do the fall recruit, and I just feel like I'm going to miss out on so much!! Is there any way around this?! I can't believe I acted so naively. Please help!!!
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Before you leave this sorority,
be sure that you are understand & accept that you MIGHT not get an opportunity to join another group. If not being in any group is preferable to you than being in this sorority, then drop and rush again in the Fall. Just be 100% sure before you choose to dump this group of girls. This might be your only chance.
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