Considering dropping out

[33girl]

Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna

If you resign, they will win.

Yep. That really, really sums it up.

Wear your letters 24/7/365 so everyone KNOWS who is really in your sorority. Be loud and proud and let them know that you're not going away just because you don't look like a movie star.

Give these new girls some time and get to know them one on one. I know they may be a LOT different than what you're used to, but you might be surprised at how it turns out. Here's another side of the coin: these girls probably feel a bit defensive themselves and possibly like they are only being "used" for their looks. That's not fun.

You might try having a sisterhood retreat just to get everything on the table. I also agree with everyone who's said go to whomever is above your advisor. She may have good intentions, but her manner of implementation is crap.

[adpiucf]

Most seniors get to feeling this way. "This is not the chapter I joined." And you know what, you're right. The girls who chose you have long since graduated, and you've recruited new members and you've made your own impression on the chapter. You seem to have done a lot during your membership. Try to keep a positive attitude and follow the advice given here.

I have friends who terminated their memberships during the final year in college, and, several years later, they really regret that decision. I hope you make the choice that is right for you. I don't think you really want to leave after all you have put into the organization, but at the end of the day, it is your choice. Please do what is right for you.

[lyrica9]

Wanadrop - hang in there. A lot of what you're saying resonates with me, and five years after becoming an alumna I can tell you that it is worth it to stick it out. Ultimately, when it comes down to it, you are a member of your org for what it means to you. Don't lose sight of that. I posted something similar here when I was a sophomore, and looking back I would have really regretted my decision had I terminated my membership. It hasn't been perfect, but it's been valuable and cherished all the same.