There is a "what to do when you've been released from recruitment" thread that is geared toward female PNM's, but you should go over there and read it.
It strikes me as odd that both times you put all of your eggs in a single basket, and also odd that you didn't give your roommate's fraternity a shot, if you guys get alone (and it sounds like you do). We advise against that all of the time. It sounds like you made a bad strategic call, and you may have fit better elsewhere.
You made the same mistake twice. I don't know if rushing more than one fraternity is some sort of taboo at your school, but it didn't work out for you.
Of course, if you met guys from all 13 fraternities and really feel there are only two you would be good in, that may also be your problem. Take this semester to actually get to KNOW people in fraternities, not just hi how are you.
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