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Originally Posted by 33girl
Apparently UM is on way shakier footing than anyone realizes, are under intense pressure to do well this rush or get yanked, are completely burnt out and have so adopted the theme of It Just Doesn't Matter.
Unfortunately, instead of doing this in a goofy and happy way, like eating nothing but ice cream for three days and attending Meet The Greeks attired in Snuggies, they are doing it by turning into giant raging bitches.
I second the getting coffee and talking it out and waking them up a bit, and while I realize it may be REALLY hard, please cut these girls as much slack as you possibly can. They are going through something incredibly hard and if you get hammered with the same threats and worries year after year, when you've tried to do your best, you can only be positive for so long before you snap.
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Oh yeah. No everyone knows what shaky footing they're on. That's why some girls have no interest in joining their house because they feel that if their charter is going to be taken away any day now, what's the point? However, other chapters think that all they need is one really great group of girls to work on turning the chapter around. We all are encouraging other girls to keep an open mind and that all the houses are amazing. That's part of the reason it is so frustrating that they've been treating us this way when we're trying to help. They have just taken the attitude of well "f**k everyone, they all suck" which is a bit unfortunate. Recruitment is almost over.....