Alumni Lavalier?

[adpiucf]

It's fine. Do it. She gets her candle pass and the fun of being lavaliered, and you don't have to go through the humiliation of being dumped in a lake by your brothers (a UCF favorite back when I was in school when a brother lavaliered a girl) or somesuch tradition. Girls came back to my chapter years after graduating for a candlepass to celebrate engagements and the collegians happily accomodated them.

[Old_Row]

Originally Posted by adpiucf

Girls came back to my chapter years after graduating for a candlepass to celebrate engagements and the collegians happily accomodated them.

That's allowed? It would seem all kinds of awk to me if we had a candle pass for an alumna especially since it would be kind of obvious it was for her if she just showed up for it.

[adpiucf]

Yes, they would call ahead for permission to attend the meeting. Then the president would announce if there was a candlepass. We may not have known the ladies, but who doesn't love a candlepass and a chance to meet a new sister?