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09-03-2012, 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Wishful
None of those really apply to me... At least most of those girls can get into a sorority. I can't...but yes I just need to vent. I wish I could share my whole story with everyone (recruitment this year and last)! Maybe after when recruitment is over?
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1) We would love to hear your story once recruitment is over, provided you can tell it in a manner that will not lead to hurt feelings.
2) Some women are not successful in recruitment. We've talked about tons of reasons why around here. However, none of us know YOU. If you are unsuccessful this time around, you would be wise to ask a trusted friend if there is some real reason you are having this much trouble. There could be something about how you are presenting yourself that is causing problems for you, and if this is the case, you should find out now, because it will continue to affect you in job hunts and stuff like that.
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09-03-2012, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
1) We would love to hear your story once recruitment is over, provided you can tell it in a manner that will not lead to hurt feelings.
2) Some women are not successful in recruitment. We've talked about tons of reasons why around here. However, none of us know YOU. If you are unsuccessful this time around, you would be wise to ask a trusted friend if there is some real reason you are having this much trouble. There could be something about how you are presenting yourself that is causing problems for you, and if this is the case, you should find out now, because it will continue to affect you in job hunts and stuff like that.
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Thank you! Yeah I realize you guys can't really tell me what I'm doing wrong. Maybe if you read my story next week, you'll have some insight. I honestly don't know how I'm presenting myself "wrongly" to others. Personally, I just think that there are other girls better or more suited for the chapter than me. I know that they can't take everyone. I just happen to be last on everyone's list I guess. And unless I'm on the other side of the process, I won't know exactly how it works out. It is tough to make it to that side lol.
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09-03-2012, 07:15 PM
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Even if you just have a few houses left...remember, it just takes one! Good luck! 
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Then there are friends who sail together, through quiet waters and stormy weather. Helping each other through joy and through strife. And those are the kind who give meaning to life.
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09-03-2012, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted by WhiteDaisy128
Even if you just have a few houses left...remember, it just takes one! Good luck! |
Thanks for your kind words! Fingers crossed that I can make it through the last few days of recruitment.
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09-03-2012, 07:21 PM
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Im rooting for you!! As others have said, it only takes 1 and it sounds like you have an open mind. Hang in there and keep us posted. Good Luck!
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09-03-2012, 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Ladybugmom
Im rooting for you!! As others have said, it only takes 1 and it sounds like you have an open mind. Hang in there and keep us posted. Good Luck!
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Thank you! Few more days till we see my fate...
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09-03-2012, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted by WhiteDaisy128
Even if you just have a few houses left...remember, it just takes one! Good luck! |
THIS!!!^^^^^^
I wish you the best of luck. Don't give up on the process. Maybe you aren't meant to be in a sorority, but at least you are TRYING. Unfortunately great girls fall through the cracks. It's NOT a perfect system... but we wish you the best, and truly hope you find a home! If not, try other clubs and organizations!
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09-03-2012, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by summer_gphib
THIS!!!^^^^^^
I wish you the best of luck. Don't give up on the process. Maybe you aren't meant to be in a sorority, but at least you are TRYING. Unfortunately great girls fall through the cracks. It's NOT a perfect system... but we wish you the best, and truly hope you find a home! If not, try other clubs and organizations!
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Thank you! It is not a perfect system whatsoever. My friend in a sorority at a different school has been trying to comfort me all day with how flawed the system is.
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