No Recs = Death Sentence?

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by YouTee

Second daughter just went through rush at another competitive southern school... Point being, we had been told that for both schools, recs were a MUST, but we found that it wasn't actually the case, at least for my daughters.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE trust us.... recs ARE REQUIRED at these competitive Southern schools in order to get a bid from many, many of the sororities. NO "maybes".

Now perhaps a chapter might like a woman enough to get the needed rec FOR her. That does not mean that a rec was not needed, just that it came from a different source, i.e. not the PNM.