Alumni/Alumnae who don't know their place

[DoctorD]

Being an officer is one of the best learning/personal development experiences one can have. Mistakes are supposed to be a part of the process. Sometimes we forget that and think we are helping when in fact we are hindering.

I say go ahead and talk with her. Otherwise it becomes a huge elephant in the room, and the new president won't be able to work through her learning process quite as well.