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It all depends on the school.
If it's the norm for PNMs to wear black and your daughter lacks the confidence to wear something different, it will affect the way she presents herself that night. She also may be looked at a little differently by some chapters for not wearing black and not necessarily in a positive way.
There is also the psychology of wearing something similar to the chapter members. I think on some level, it sends a subliminal message that "she belongs here."
That said, she should wear what she is comfortable wearing. This is her recruitment, not sorority sugar's, yours or any member of Greekchat's.
PS - You understand that by posting her school and her pref dress online that you are revealing her identity here?
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