Should I still join a sorority if I am socially awkward?

[Jen]

Have some conversation topics ready in case things are lagging. Just a few things you can ask or question you have. That way if it feels awkward, you can chime in with something you've practiced.

Also - smile! As someone who isn't only shy and introverted, but suffers from social anxiety, I've realized that smiling and looking like you're open to other people makes a big different in how they see you. If you look like you're enjoying yourself (and you may not - rush can be hectic and taxing!) then people will see you as enjoying yourself.

Carve out time after rush events to relax and do something quiet and non-stimulating for yourself to calm down and relax and get centered again.

[33girl]

Quit calling yourself "shy." It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. You are mysterious and deep.

barbino's suggestion is great. If it still freaks you out a bit, drive to the next town over where no one knows you and do it.

Originally Posted by 33girl

Quit calling yourself "shy." It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. You are mysterious and deep.

barbino's suggestion is great. If it still freaks you out a bit, drive to the next town over where no one knows you and do it.

Lol i love that! Sounds very appealing. Mysterious and deep. Haha. Thank you for your help as well.

Originally Posted by Jen

Have some conversation topics ready in case things are lagging. Just a few things you can ask or question you have. That way if it feels awkward, you can chime in with something you've practiced.

Also - smile! As someone who isn't only shy and introverted, but suffers from social anxiety, I've realized that smiling and looking like you're open to other people makes a big different in how they see you. If you look like you're enjoying yourself (and you may not - rush can be hectic and taxing!) then people will see you as enjoying yourself.

Carve out time after rush events to relax and do something quiet and non-stimulating for yourself to calm down and relax and get centered again.

Thank you i will try this for sure i smile anyway out of being really nervous..its an awkward smile haha.