High School Boyfriend and Sororities

AlphaFrog · #1 05-21-2012, 10:50 AM

If I could go back and tell my college freshman self one thing (and actually have myself believe it), it would be to not sacrifice any college experience for a high school boyfriend. If he's worth it, he'll stick it out with you, and if not then you haven't lost out on college life. Yes, relationships take comprise and work and sacrifice, but not that kind at this stage in your life.

Munchkin03 · #2 05-21-2012, 12:04 PM

I don't mean to sound cynical, but I'd think that most people who have had that experience would say to proceed with aspects of college life since very few HS relationships stand the test of that first semester.

If going through recruitment and new member education is important to you, then I'd recommend you do it and take as much out of the experience as you can.

WCsweet<3 · #3 05-21-2012, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

If I could go back and tell my college freshman self one thing (and actually have myself believe it), it would be to not sacrifice any college experience for a high school boyfriend. If he's worth it, he'll stick it out with you, and if not then you haven't lost out on college life. Yes, relationships take comprise and work and sacrifice, but not that kind at this stage in your life.

I second this. I really suggest doing everything you can on campus your freshman year. He will want to when he is at college. It sucks and you will miss him, but if you fill up your time with activities time will go by faster as well.