Could You Wait?

[Dexter]

Originally posted by neicy81
I feel that if you love someone you would be willing to wait for them. I appreciate the brothas being honest, but you don't NEED sex.Trust me, your body will function quite properly without it.Don't let sex be an addiction or something you feel you just have to have.In 2002, it could lead to your demise.

You are right, sex shouldn't be an addiction. But if you are in a relationship, it is something personal and intimate between the two of you. Ask yourself what exactly is sex. It's the act of becoming one with someone else. When do you think it is time to share your whole self with your significant other. Basically I think womenshould stand on whatever belifs they have as far as sex is concerned. But I'm just saying be honest about why you are or aren't doing it. Telling a man, " we should move slow" is just another way of saying," I don't fully trust you right now, but give me some to let you earn my trust.