Just Spring COBed, feel really disconnected

[AOII Angel]

You can't expect to know everyone in a day, week, month, semester. None of them did. As "super tight" as they all seem, I guarantee you that in a chapter of 250 women, that many of them are NOT very close. They'd be lucky to know every member of their group. One of the big ways that the whole group gets closer is through recruitment. You'll experience that in the fall when you are all together 24/7 for weeks. Obviously walking into a house with 250 women you don't know is intimidating, but don't freak yourself out. They KNOW you don't know anyone...but you will soon. Your bid day buddy will introduce you to sisters. You'll get a big sis soon who will help make the chapter a little smaller for you. BUT you have to make an effort to smile, make conversation and meet some of these women.