:/

[Meow124]

its nothing like that, shes fine with me getting in and shes even doing a different one! and she's so excited about it! i feel like my heart isn't in it because i dont see myself partying with most of these girls, or even really being friends with them. SOMETIMES i get a good feeling like this is something i want to do, but even then it's just to be able to say i'm in one. and after awhile my gut feeling comes back and i feel terrible. How do you know if youre in the right sorority because i feel like i'm not

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by Meow124

i took the bid anyway thinking it was what i wanted, but i have noticed that im really not getting along with the girls and that my reasons for rushing were pretty dumb. I wanted to meet more people, and i knew it looked good on my resume, but i also like their "themes" and such.

Originally Posted by Meow124

i feel like my heart isn't in it because i dont see myself partying with most of these girls, or even really being friends with them. SOMETIMES i get a good feeling like this is something i want to do, but even then it's just to be able to say i'm in one.

Based on some of these comments, I'm not sure you really understand what you've just been invited to join. Being a part of a sorority is so much more than letters on a shirt, a few lines on a resume, or having a place to party on Friday night. For some people, it takes more than a week to see that, as well as to make true friends.

Forget about what your friends are doing. If they're truly your friends, they'll continue to consider you one, regardless of which sorority you're a member of. And if you, on your own, decide that this chapter - or Greek life in general - isn't for you, then you can drop before initiation. However, I would suggest giving it some more time. The members of this sorority saw something in you that made them want to give you a bid. Give them a chance, the same way they gave you one.