Unfortunately, this has crossed boundaries.
Please read this thread:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=119719
And understand that generally speaking, members of Alpha Phi Alpha will not publicly answer membership questions or engage with you on that level.
I am happy that you have zeal for any organization, but it's a private journey.
You're welcome to continue posting, but please also note that the "Brother" part of your screen name will rub some the wrong way. It sounds presumptuous. This is not what you intended, but it is somewhat offensive nonetheless.