Dr. Phil, as always, you find a great way of saying things. I think Stephen Colbert does it great too. "I don't see race. I know I'm white because..." insert hysterically funny and socially racist thing. What's the phrase about your friends will like you because of your differences, not in spite of them? I think that is a more positive way of saying it than we'll all be color blind and unicorns will poop rainbows.