African American going through recruitment at Alabama?

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Exactly. So while you may not have meant to be rude and judgmental, all we have to go by is what you said, which came across that way.

And I meant to be judgmental - we all are here. Being truthful by calling attention to what she said is not being rude - unless, of course, what she said was rude to begin with.

And BTW everyone, she said her sister is a member of one of the groups at Alabama BUT AT ANOTHER SCHOOL.

Thank you.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by Titchou

First of all, I was not judgmental and rude.

Originally Posted by Titchou

And I meant to be judgmental

Good grief. Pick one -- judgmental or not -- and stick with it.

-- we all are here. Being truthful by calling attention to what she said is not being rude - unless, of course, what she said was rude to begin with.

There's a difference between being truthful by calling attention to what someone says and making assumptions based on what they didn't say or a few things like "wanna" -- assumptions that the OP has since said are wrong.