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Originally Posted by carnation
I've heard of schools that use older alums (mother types) for Rho Chis, as well as local alums of sororities not present on campus. There are many stories out there about Rho Chis who laughingly admit that yes, they did influence PNMs' choices or sneak off and call their chapters about certain girls so CPC was probably thrilled to have a great non-NPC woman as a Rho Chi.
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I'm not doubting that she's awesome. I'm saying that going outside your own conference is a very dicey and possibly inappropriate thing. This is kind of along the lines of Alpha Phi Omega members serving on/being officers of their campus IFC. It's nothing personal against the person, it's a matter of staying in your lane.
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Originally Posted by Mevara
Thinking about the non-NPCer helping with Formal Recruitment is odd. Although I really like the idea. If done well it could really bring the Greek community closer. Not only would they be impartial but they could also help counsel those PNMs who are torn between NPC and NPHC/MGC.
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That's something that is a great idea, but it should be its own program/workshop - not a part of rush. If the school is so in favor of women looking at NPC/NPHC/MGC groups on an even footing, the first thing to do is to get rid of first semester rush for NPC. DrPhil is right, if a woman goes through NPC rush, doesn't make it, and THEN tries to go NPHC, she isn't getting far. And that needs to be said, not glossed over.
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Originally Posted by Pingyang
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Campus B is a lovely charming idea, but I think she's either describing Happy Pony Rainbow Land, or else a campus where everyone has LOTS of money and LOTS of time.
She's also being ridiculous (nothing new LOL) in saying that women apply to "escape chapter recruitment responsibilities" and make it sound like that's the prevailing factor. As I've said, I suck at rush. I'm great at chatting up women at parties, class etc, but I suck hard at formal rush. I wanted to be a Rho Chi not to avoid putting up decorations or practicing skits, but to help my chapter!
I'll also wager that some of the women who do become Rho Chis for the "wrong" reasons end up being the most panhellenically minded and devoted women out there - just like some of the people who join only to party end up being supersister and exec board for 3 years. Greek unity isn't something you can fake or confine to a certain group. If EVERYONE isn't on board, it doesn't make a shit of difference how wonderful your Rho Chis are.