We don't have to worry about anyone non-Catholic wanting a Catholic wedding. The "stand up sit down" scares them away
I think it would be just the length of the mass that is associated with it... The first time I went to a non-Catholic wedding it was done in 15 mins. I was so not prepared for that and had to turn to my mom and ask if that was it.
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