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Originally Posted by wareagle93
Yeah, I'd have to agree with some of the others, it doesn't seem like it's officially a relationship.
With regards to being confident in how he conducts himself at parties, it all comes down to trust, especially if/when you two are officially dating. My girlfriend and I are both Freshman at Auburn, we've been dating for almost 2 months. Her sorority and my fraternity have both had swaps/date-nights/functions with organizations other than our own, and I completely trust her when she has a date to her sorority's function (when they have swap with a different Fraternity) and vice-versa. It all comes down to trust.
I'm no Dr. Phil, but if you're confused in any way, try talking to him about it. Also, do you like him? If so, have you considered asking him out/to be your boyfriend, or are you more old-fashioned?
Best of luck!
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I'm more old-fashioned, like I wait and reading the replies of what people have said, it makes me look back on my behavior and judgement of the situation. What I thought was potentially something was probably just something disguised. I feel like an idiot for even letting myself go down that road. I know I told myself the first day I moved into my dorm that I would never date a frat boy. I feel really ashamed I let myself down. What I thought could be this different guy in fraternity who actually cared, really ended up matching the stereotype that he just wanted me to get in bed with him.