Panhellenic Council

[dpsidlove]

Thank you for your responses! I'm just worried that they won't give us the answers we are looking for, my feeling is that they don't really want us here. As far as changing the bylaws, its more like modifying them to fit our chapter not so much Panhel, but this definately will help us in the future with Panhel , and all of the girls have decided that this is best, even our other chapters so it will work well for us! Im just wondering how i should go about dealing with girls that are a little apprhensive about having us at their campus. Our goal right now is just to go to any open greek events or events that we are invited to to show our support to all sororities and fraternities! and to kill them with kindness, nothing negative about any other organization will ever come out of our mouths no matter what they say about us. IFC on the other hand really wants us here, we have supported them all this past year and it would really balance everything out to have another sorority at our campus, so this is a help for us and hopefully the rest will come.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by dpsidlove

IFC on the other hand really wants us here

{teeth-sucking sound}

This might be part of the problem. The current sororities might feel you're encroaching on their territory and trying to take their men. As Dear Abby always said, if you want to be truly popular, make friends with the girls first.

I'm not saying be UNsupportive of the fraternities, but maybe cut down a little on the mixers etc, and spend some time getting to know the other girls in the Greek system.