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Originally Posted by mingleberry
Hi,
I placed a bid on ABC but it wasn't a good fit there are only three npc's on campus and im alot older and a junior, my campus doesn't care if i rush as a senior. I regretted turning down XYZ. However, i am considering rushing again next year or trying to rush as an alum instead as the women would be more of my age and background, (im 24). I really did enjoy the experience i just felt that the chapter i joined wasnt the right fit for either of us and have subsequently de-pledged.
I would love some thoughts on this
Thanks
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Assuming that you are talking about NPC sororities...your bid to ABC was probably your best shot at sorority membership. Honestly, if you were that interested in a lifetime membership, what could possibly have been so bad about two years with that chapter? Sure, your recruitment may not have gone perfectly but that's probably the norm, not the exception. However, after you have gone through recruitment as a junior, the odds are overwhelming that you will not get another chance at a bid (especially considering that you already got one!)
Your odds of getting a bid as a senior are dim, and of getting a bid as an alumna dimmer still. No one will stop you from trying, however.
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