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10-19-2011, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair
You'll never know how many connections you've missed out on.
I think you said you live in the Northeast, so I know it's a different story on how popular Greek life is there and how it's viewed. Luckily, I've never lived in that region of the country and have been able to list with pride my involvement in Chi Omega. 
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If I put Phi Mu on my resume, it would mean leaving something else off. Believe me, I have much more important use for that space.
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10-19-2011, 03:45 PM
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If I put Phi Mu on my resume, it would mean leaving something else off. Believe me, I have much more important use for that space.
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Wow. How lucky Phi Mu is to have you as a member.
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10-19-2011, 03:58 PM
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Wow. How lucky Phi Mu is to have you as a member.
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Are you serious?
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10-19-2011, 04:05 PM
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Wow. How lucky Phi Mu is to have you as a member.
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Because she's showing good sense? Yes, they are lucky to have someone with sense as a member. I'd take that any day over some other traits I see exhibited here, including the ability to ride incredibly high horses.
It's not a matter of being proud of one's organization or not. It's a matter of knowing one's goal with a resume and knowing which of the many things that could be put on it should be put on it to accomplish that goal. It's also a matter of knowing one's audience and knowing, in the context of that audience, which things might fairly or unfairly thwart one in reaching that goal.
It works for you to put everything you've ever done for Chi O on your resume -- that's fine for you. But there's more than a little arrogance in your not-so-subtle suggestions that anyone who does things differently is ashamed of their GLOs or less loyal to their GLO than you.
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10-19-2011, 04:24 PM
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I will attempt to explain this very simply --- and then I will go away and let you rip me to shreds.
1. If you believe your membership in your GLO is for a lifetime and more valuable to you than your membership in a health club, I think it belongs on your resume. In my case, I only included the high level offices I held as a collegian, along with other extra curricular involvement e.g., Student Government and Class Officer.
2. I have only applied for jobs in the South and Midwest, so I was never afraid that it would be viewed negatively.
3. It truly stuns me that posters/moderators on a GreekChat site care enough to be on here everyday and comment on hundreds of threads, but choose not to include their membership on a resume.
But, of course, I agree -- if I'd only served as T-shirt Chair, I wouldn't list that either.
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10-19-2011, 04:30 PM
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I will attempt to explain this very simply --- and then I will go away and let you rip me to shreds.
1. If you believe your membership in your GLO is for a lifetime and more valuable to you than your membership in a health club, I think it belongs on your resume. In my case, I only included the high level offices I held as a collegian, along with other extra curricular involvement e.g., Student Government and Class Officer.
2. I have only applied for jobs in the South and Midwest, so I was never afraid that it would be viewed negatively.
3. It truly stuns me that posters/moderators on a GreekChat site care enough to be on here everyday and comment on hundreds of threads, but choose not to include their membership on a resume.
But, of course, I agree -- if I'd only served as T-shirt Chair, I wouldn't list that either.
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Am I not able to remain active in my GLO if it's not listed on my resume?
What if I have 4 work-related internships that would be beneficial in a new position. Should I remove one so that I can have room for my GLO?
I do have my fraternity listed on one of my resumes and I'm in the South, but to insinuate that folks are "less than" because they don't list their affiliations is silly.
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10-19-2011, 04:36 PM
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I have only applied for jobs in the South and Midwest, so I was never afraid that it would be viewed negatively.
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Surely you grasp the concept that your experience does not mirror everone else's experience.
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It truly stuns me that posters/moderators on a GreekChat site care enough to be on here everyday and comment on hundreds of threads, but choose not to include their membership on a resume.
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Feel free to be stunned. I would list it on my resume, but I hope I would never be rude or condescending enough to suggest that someone who made a different choice was an embarrassment to her sorority.
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10-19-2011, 07:22 PM
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Surely you grasp the concept that your experience does not mirror everone else's experience.
Feel free to be stunned. I would list it on my resume, but I hope I would never be rude or condescending enough to suggest that someone who made a different choice was an embarrassment to her sorority.
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Agreed. I'm stunned that someone would be so bold as to question my allegiance to my fraternity based on what I put on my resume. But, to each their own.
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10-19-2011, 07:31 PM
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I will attempt to explain this very simply --- and then I will go away and let you rip me to shreds.
1. If you believe your membership in your GLO is for a lifetime and more valuable to you than your membership in a health club, I think it belongs on your resume. In my case, I only included the high level offices I held as a collegian, along with other extra curricular involvement e.g., Student Government and Class Officer.
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I don't just leave off my Greek membership; I leave off all of my undergrad extra curriculars. I was president of a couple of organizations related to my majors, an assistant editor of the college paper, and in multiple college theater productions. None of that stuff has been on my resume since I graduated law school. IMHO, it looks immature to include that stuff after you are a few years out of undergrad. I put it on my first resumes because I wanted to show that I had high grades and was able to balance a very busy schedule. I have no extracurriculars on my resume currently -- only academics, academic honors, and professional activities. My clerkship and my bar committees are more important to my career than KD. I love KD, but it's not relevant to my career. I know a ton of lawyers who are Greek, but no one I know puts it on their resumes. It's not relevant to anything we do.
I would only put that stuff on my resume if it relevant to the job I was immediately applying for -- ie. a writing job or a student affairs job or a theater job.
A resume is a short introduction on why someone should hire you. I don't think anyone should hire me because I am a KD or Greek. They should hire me because I'm good at my job.
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10-19-2011, 07:33 PM
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3. It truly stuns me that posters/moderators on a GreekChat site care enough to be on here everyday and comment on hundreds of threads, but choose not to include their membership on a resume.
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Then this may really stun you. I did not attend my alumnae chapter meeting last week. I know...I know...I am on Greekchat almost everyday but could not go to my alumnae chapter meeting. It does not matter why I did not attend. The fact that I did not attend means that Delta should hang me from Fortitude.
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But, of course, I agree -- if I'd only served as T-shirt Chair, I wouldn't list that either.
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 Then you are that which you despise. It does not matter whether you were t-shirt chair or leather chair. GLO membership is GLO membership, right? Details and context do not matter.
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10-19-2011, 09:02 PM
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I will attempt to explain this very simply --- and then I will go away and let you rip me to shreds.
1. If you believe your membership in your GLO is for a lifetime and more valuable to you than your membership in a health club, I think it belongs on your resume. In my case, I only included the high level offices I held as a collegian, along with other extra curricular involvement e.g., Student Government and Class Officer.
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I would wager most people of faith put their religion above a health club membership and think it is for life (and beyond) yet I don't see a whole lot of religious affiliations on a resume.
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10-20-2011, 10:37 PM
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I would wager most people of faith put their religion above a health club membership and think it is for life (and beyond) yet I don't see a whole lot of religious affiliations on a resume.
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Pretty much.
By the time I started looking for jobs in my field, I had already received a MS and had a history of publications. Since I was still only 24 and looking for experience, there was no need for my resume to be longer than one page. I can't stand seeing resumes of people under 90 that are pages and pages long. With that in mind, I've never put my Greek affiliation on my resume--I figure where I went to school, where I worked, and the journals for which I've written are more relevant to my future employers.
Also, I'm in a creative field. Greek life isn't that popular in some of the creative fields...I believe I'm one of 2 or 3 Greeks (if that!) in my office of 60.
Of course, this only applies to my professional resume--I have a volunteer/philanthropic resume that does include Greek life involvement. But, since I'm more removed from my office-holding days, there's not much it requires beyond a line or two.
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10-21-2011, 08:14 PM
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[QUOTE=Munchkin03;2101493] With that in mind, I've never put my Greek affiliation on my resume--I figure where I went to school, where I worked, and the journals for which I've written are more relevant to my future employers.[\QUOTE]
Agreed. In my field, there are a number of other things (journal editor positions, moot court/mock trial, etc.) that are of greater importance to potential employers. As I go on in my career, that will remain true (i.e. my practice areas, trial/appellate experience, etc.).
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10-19-2011, 09:50 PM
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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair
I will attempt to explain this very simply --- and then I will go away and let you rip me to shreds.
1. If you believe your membership in your GLO is for a lifetime and more valuable to you than your membership in a health club, I think it belongs on your resume. In my case, I only included the high level offices I held as a collegian, along with other extra curricular involvement e.g., Student Government and Class Officer.
2. I have only applied for jobs in the South and Midwest, so I was never afraid that it would be viewed negatively.
3. It truly stuns me that posters/moderators on a GreekChat site care enough to be on here everyday and comment on hundreds of threads, but choose not to include their membership on a resume.
But, of course, I agree -- if I'd only served as T-shirt Chair, I wouldn't list that either.
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I have only ever applied for jobs in the South (btw - we're in the same state). I am proud of my membership in Kappa. However, I was an active member about 20 years ago. I don't include anything that I did when I was in college on my resume other than where I attended, my degrees, my major, and the year I graduated. It has to do with marketing myself to what I want to accomplish; despite my affection for Kappa, I've accomplished much in that time that is more relevant in my career. I would think most people at this stage in the game are in a similar boat, unless they've worked exclusively for their GLO since graduation.
If I were to advise a recent college grad on writing a resume, I would not advise them to go crazy with the GLO-oriented activities. Not because some HR clerk may have a grudge against XYZ or Greeks in general, but because heavy focus on any one aspect when you're starting out causes a candidate to appear less well-rounded.
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10-20-2011, 05:35 PM
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If I were to advise a recent college grad on writing a resume, I would not advise them to go crazy with the GLO-oriented activities. Not because some HR clerk may have a grudge against XYZ or Greeks in general, but because heavy focus on any one aspect when you're starting out causes a candidate to appear less well-rounded.
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I advise new grads to include the activity that gave them the experience, but simply to say "chapter of a national sorority". No sense losing a chance over something you can control - even if it is only remotely possible. It's not the sorority (or fraternity) the employer is looking for - usually - it's the experience. If the interviewer is interested, s/he'll ask which organization.
I include some DG activities on my resume, for certain positions, because some of my alumnae activities are demonstrative of my skills, not because they're DG. It doesn't matter whether activities are paid or not; the experience is defined by the extent, scope, and breadth of the activity. If an activity clearly demonstrates a level of responsibility, a leadership capacity, a collaborative nature, or whatever, that is of value to the employer, include it.
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