"Taking someone else's spot"

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by violetpretty

I haven't heard of a school where a PNM is allowed to skip parties (unless excused) during formal recruitment without being released entirely.

I haven't heard of one that does. If they do release her from recruitment for failure to accept an invitation they should be reported to their NPC Area Adviser. The requirement in the Green Book for Quota Additions states that
"this procedure shall never include a woman who lists an Intentional Single Preference on her Membership Recruitment Acceptance Agreement or one who has failed to accept or attend any membership recruitment event for which there was room in her membership recruitment schedule.

So obviously, she can decline to attend if they have to say what to do with her at bid matching.