I have no idea what you all are typing about but want to say, once again, that I love how seasoned the Greeks on GC are. An across-generation mix of Greek awesomeness. Lifetime memberships, indeed.
And for groups that aren't making quota, I think it's a moot issue because they still have 'spots' regardless of whether the PNM accepts the bid or not. I've always felt like it's more of an issue that a disappointed/negative/miserable PNM brings down the rest of the women in her pledge class as well as the chapter members, rather than an issue that she is 'taking up a spot', especially because this seems to come up more often with smaller chapters that have other 'spots' available. Just my $0.02.
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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
It's kinda like telling a child that won't eat her peas that there are starving children in Africa, ie. Be grateful for what you have.
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Originally Posted by Jen
I think a lot of times, coming from a PNM it's a way to say "I didn't like that group and want to drop them so I didn't put them on my pref card" without everyone actually hearing that. It sounds way more self sacrificing to say "I just didn't want to take someone else's spot."
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