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[Psi U MC Vito]

He said that he never participated in formal rush. Hanging out with brothers =/= going to a rush event, at least not always. A couple of our more active brothers when I was a UG we grabbed by being friends of brothers and hanging out with us.

[silverado1223]

Not wanting to sound like a dck to these guys, do I tell them, yes I accept their bid, or do I just say, I would like to join their brotherhood, or is ethier one acceptable? Thank you.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by silverado1223

Not wanting to sound like a dck to these guys, do I tell them, yes I accept their bid, or do I just say, I would like to join their brotherhood, or is ethier one acceptable? Thank you.

You. Need. To. Ask. Them. What. The. Next. Steps. Are.

WE are not THEM. We can't tell you what needs to be done.

[ThetaPrincess24]

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

You. Need. To. Ask. Them. What. The. Next. Steps. Are.

WE are not THEM. We can't tell you what needs to be done.

There are no stupid questions, just stupid people.

[excelblue]

Definitely do ask them about the next steps. It varies between organizations.

Generally speaking, a bid card is a formal invitation to join. However, you have to accept the bid before you join.

Also, for most (but not all) fraternities, there is a pledging period following acceptance of the bid, where you are a member but not a brother.

This all differs between organizations, so you should ask, ask, ask!!!

[silverado1223]

Thank you excel, that was pretty much, what I was wondering.