advise for daughter who resigned after 3rd round

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

There was no chapter at AU who was inviting every girl in desperation to get SOMEBODY. If she was on a list it was with intention.

I'd love to see a system where the chapters are advised that these girls have been cut completely. Can you reconsider inviting them again? If she wasn't actually cut, but just not high enough on the list, maybe a chapter or two would make an exception. Of course this would have to be done without the knowledge of the rushee, and maybe would open an ugly can of worms, but maybe it would keep a handful of hearts from being broken. I can see a chapter inviting back 5 more girls, spread out over all of their parties, and nobody knows the difference. What would be interesting to see is if that girl, cut completely, might suddenly have a full schedule because everyone from her previous days says, sure, we'd love to have her again.
Am I being ridiculous? (I mean about this particular topic. I know I'm ridiculous otherwise)

I think you should start a separate thread on this. It's also weird to me to think that there are systems where NO chapter is eligible to COB, ever.