Yes there is a withdrawal process but if you stop showing up they assume you have dropped out.
Attendance is also taken at each party for each round (so they know in minutes). If you skip a party because you dont like the chapter, but attend other parties, that isnt good. Most Panhellenics will automatically withdrawal a PNM from the recruitment process for doing that and rightfully so.
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