Bridesmaids Dresses/Groomsman Attire etc.

[AOEforme]

I thought I had solved my dilemma of "good dress for black tie optional that can be worn again" by selecting black bridesmaids dresses. (We're doing black, white, and pink for our color scheme). The girls can choose a cut that fits them nicely (within guidelines) and I've selected the fabric.

Fiancee is concerned that black, even at an evening reception, will seem more like a funeral than a wedding. Now, I'm also concerned.

Opinions? Would the following ensemble appear too much like a funeral? The pink sash would tie in back, rather than front.

[WCsweet<3]

Originally Posted by AOEforme

I thought I had solved my dilemma of "good dress for black tie optional that can be worn again" by selecting black bridesmaids dresses. (We're doing black, white, and pink for our color scheme). The girls can choose a cut that fits them nicely (within guidelines) and I've selected the fabric.

Fiancee is concerned that black, even at an evening reception, will seem more like a funeral than a wedding. Now, I'm also concerned.

Opinions? Would the following ensemble appear too much like a funeral? The pink sash would tie in back, rather than front.

I wouldn't say it looks like a funeral. If your wedding is formal, it's perfect, especially if you are having an evening affair. I mean if you are doing a morning or outdoor wedding then I would shy away.

I like how the pink sash pops off the black dress too. Oh and the matching shoes!

[AOEforme]

Originally Posted by WCsweet<3

I wouldn't say it looks like a funeral. If your wedding is formal, it's perfect, especially if you are having an evening affair. I mean if you are doing a morning or outdoor wedding then I would shy away.

I like how the pink sash pops off the black dress too. Oh and the matching shoes!

We're doing an indoor wedding (because it's Wisconsin and I never trust the weather) in the evening, so I'm hoping it's not too formal.

I think I'm going to buy the shoes for them, so they don't have to spend extra money on shoes. (Even though I would totally wear a pair of hot pink pumps again.)

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by AOEforme

We're doing an indoor wedding (because it's Wisconsin and I never trust the weather) in the evening, so I'm hoping it's not too formal.

I think I'm going to buy the shoes for them, so they don't have to spend extra money on shoes. (Even though I would totally wear a pair of hot pink pumps again.)

Love it! I think that'll be a classic look. I went to a wedding a few years ago where the maids were all in black with red accents and shoes and it was amazing.

Where are you getting married? We should have Wisconsin wedding talk!

[AOEforme]

Originally Posted by honeychile

You are the bride - if you like it, then rock it! I'm too old fashioned for it, but I admit, it looks lovely.

Thank you!

Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin

Love it! I think that'll be a classic look. I went to a wedding a few years ago where the maids were all in black with red accents and shoes and it was amazing.

Where are you getting married? We should have Wisconsin wedding talk!

Milwaukee! We should have a talk.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by AOEforme

Milwaukee! We should have a talk.

Me too (well, the 'burbs where I grew up.) I'll PM you!

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by AOEforme

I thought I had solved my dilemma of "good dress for black tie optional that can be worn again" by selecting black bridesmaids dresses. (We're doing black, white, and pink for our color scheme). The girls can choose a cut that fits them nicely (within guidelines) and I've selected the fabric.

Fiancee is concerned that black, even at an evening reception, will seem more like a funeral than a wedding. Now, I'm also concerned.

Opinions? Would the following ensemble appear too much like a funeral? The pink sash would tie in back, rather than front.

You are the bride - if you like it, then rock it! I'm too old fashioned for it, but I admit, it looks lovely.

[greekhopefull]

Originally Posted by AOEforme

I thought I had solved my dilemma of "good dress for black tie optional that can be worn again" by selecting black bridesmaids dresses. (We're doing black, white, and pink for our color scheme). The girls can choose a cut that fits them nicely (within guidelines) and I've selected the fabric.

Fiancee is concerned that black, even at an evening reception, will seem more like a funeral than a wedding. Now, I'm also concerned.

Opinions? Would the following ensemble appear too much like a funeral? The pink sash would tie in back, rather than front.

I love this!

[Munchkin03]

I can count on one hand the number of weddings I've been to where the bridesmaids weren't able to have some sort of say in the dress. Maybe it's a new thing?

I've seen everything from selecting one style from J.Crew (which is good for the wear-it-again option), and allowing the maids to pick their colors, to having everyone wear a black dress they like.