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The kind of recruitment I went through - structured informal - was perfect for me as a 1st semester sophomore. I didn't have to go back to the chapter that made me downright uncomfortable (between the hazing rumors and their not being nice at all during meet the Greeks), but I did get to check out all the other groups just to make sure that what I'd been thinking before rush began was really what was right for me. This went a long way towards my never really thinking "things would have been better if I'd joined XYZ."
If I would have had to go straight from HS to rush, I probably would never have made it into a sorority. I just didn't have the self confidence at the time.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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