i really don't think it was necessary for you to get so upset. i simply stated that the fact that another org was wearing my letters upset me.. i'm sure it would upset any. when you wear an alpha on it, thats totally different, and nothing that i would be upset about.. the thing that kind of concerned me was this quote:
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However we are allowed to have one or two pieces not requiring the alpha
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i mean.. i'm not losing sleep over this or anything. i was just like "hey.. that sucks". not a huge deal...
regarding the fact that you worked hard for you letters, i have no doubt in my mind that you did. i'm sure you gave alot to it, just as we did. i was just saying if you do in fact wear the letters kdphi with no alpha that would be like an org like sigma alphi phi wearing just aphi letters.
QUOTE]Lastly, KappaTarzan to point something out, aren't you wearing someone else's letters, namely a fraternity's? You've said that the letters are theirs, except for adding a little NAS for distinction[/QUOTE]
the fraternity who wears the same letters as us is our brother fraternity. we have the same ideals, mottos, and affiliate ("pledge") program. we call them our brothers. wearing the same letters as them isn't weird cuz they have the same ideals as we do. therefore, no. i am not wearing someone else's letters.
its just the little things... like when i first saw your name, brownsugakdphi, i thought you were one of my sisters because i thought it was like brownsuga Kdphi, nor realizing the a stood two purposes... just things like that are kinda blah. as i said before i'm not like horrendously upset, nor did i even think about it after i posted that response.
i don't have anything against you or your org, i was just like hmm that sucks...
one last night.. you said if someone misrepresented themselves that you wouldn't go running to worry about it. personally, if i saw someone wearing my letters who wasn't my sister i'd be pretty upset. maybe we are different with out letters here, each org has different regulations...
and let me leave with a quote as well. "sisterhood is valued and sacred. let no one take that."
peace, love and, lollipops,
mtsnd
KappaTarzan
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