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Originally Posted by lucgreek
What have you asked of your national organization that it has not provided you? How does it treat your chapter differently than other chapters. You said you don't care about other chapters or know about other chapters, so how would you know they are treated different?
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He said they don't care about having that network, not that they don't know anything about them, or haven't ever talked to them and compared notes. Not that you really have to do that - it's kind of blatant sometimes.
CLG2010 - I'll give you a quote from a sorority that was local, went national, and then turned local again.
"One sister argued that the vote was not really to become a local, but whether or not to become a national, coming into compliance with the rules and expectations of the national we'd ignored for years." If you feel that your national is asking things of you that are unrealistic given the campus that you're on/Greek system you're in, that they aren't giving you support to try and accomplish those things, and that you'll always be the "black sheep" no matter what you do - make sure the school/alumni will support you and you can stay recognized, and then get out. It sounds as though your decision to become national in the first place was made under duress and for the wrong reasons (i.e. insurance purposes). Your hearts were never really in it.
Sidebar: I think there have been quite a few instances in the last few years of some fraternities expanding to smaller schools because Greek interest in general has been down. The problem is, some fraternities are quite homogenous in their chapters, and a group whose chapters are all, for example, in private church-affiliated schools in the Midwest who then colonizes a group at a commuter-heavy public college in Florida is going to have problems if they try to run that Florida chapter in the same way or expect the same things of them. It's not fair to the national fraternity or to the chapter.