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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
maybe this is one of those southern things.
i agree with the ladies who are suggesting to the pnms that they take the time to write a note(it can be brief) of thanks. The alumna is doing the pnm a favor and it is considered good manners to thank her.
people interviewing for jobs should also write a note of thanks. it shows that you have been "raised right" and may put you back in the thoughts of the interviewer.
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I'm originally from (nearly) as far North as you can go, and I sent a thank you note to every person who wrote me a rec about a week after giving them my packet.
I've also tended to put more effort into the letters I've written for women who've sent me thank you notes, not because I appreciate it (which I do) but because I really want a woman with such good social graces in my sorority.
I've also sent a thank you to every interview, but that's a case of (a) wanting to be polite and (b) wanting the job.
I also don't think this was passive aggressive, but that's just me.
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