i was given a little that i did NOT get along with, so i asked to drop her the day i found out. i was sad about not having a little, but i knew it was for the best since we could never be close.
a few months later, someone from my pledge class dropped and her little, who say next to me at chapter, found out in the middle of the meeting. this was the girl i had wanted to badly as my little to begin with. she was so obviously sad. after the meeting, i went up to her and told her how much i wanted her and would be honored if i could adopt her. she was so happy.
i gave her a paddle and all sorts of gifts. she hung both her paddles up, but considers me her big. the rest of her original family had all either dropped previously or graduated so she was alone.
i am now up to my little-little-little-little-little-little!!!!! was it ever official? no clue! we told the chapter to put it in the records, but who knows if they ever did. after my little, no one else in the family even knows about the adoption. it's not a secret, we just consider ourselves totally real.
we are still great friends to this day!
so the answer is yes you can be adopted. and you should be happy!
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