Friend issue?

[Denverfriend]

My close friends and I are all a big group, which she's a part of. I don't want to create drama.

It's not that the issue is so highly personal/secretive, but my gut says to keep it contained within a PM vs. where absolutely anyone can see. Also this forum seems appropriate IMO for discussing dating and relationships.

I'm not trying to bother anyone. If you or anyone else don't want to help, it's not a big deal, but if someone does, I just thought I would try.

[AlphaFrog]

See? Self-esteem issues.

Dude, either she likes you like that or she doesn't, but no amount of e-analysis is going to help. Either ask her out or get over it. Shit or get off the pot, as it were.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Denverfriend

My close friends and I are all a big group, which she's a part of. I don't want to create drama.

It's not that the issue is so highly personal/secretive, but my gut says to keep it contained within a PM vs. where absolutely anyone can see. Also this forum seems appropriate IMO for discussing dating and relationships.

I'm not trying to bother anyone. If you or anyone else don't want to help, it's not a big deal, but if someone does, I just thought I would try.

I am baffled by this rationale in a place of strangers.

I have to admit that if I were to PM you I would post your response in this thread. Thank me for not PMing you.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

I am baffled by this rationale in a place of strangers.

I have to admit that if I were to PM you I would post your response in this thread. Thank me for not PMing you.

[Denverfriend]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

I am baffled by this rationale in a place of strangers.

I have to admit that if I were to PM you I would post your response in this thread. Thank me for not PMing you.

I have to admit, I already knew this.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by Denverfriend

I have to admit, I already knew this.

You are one creepy mofo.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by preciousjeni

You are one creepy mofo.

lol

[BluPhire]

Originally Posted by Denverfriend

My close friends and I are all a big group, which she's a part of. I don't want to create drama.

It's not that the issue is so highly personal/secretive, but my gut says to keep it contained within a PM vs. where absolutely anyone can see. Also this forum seems appropriate IMO for discussing dating and relationships.

I'm not trying to bother anyone. If you or anyone else don't want to help, it's not a big deal, but if someone does, I just thought I would try.

See where you messed up. That's the problem with this new generation. They don't know when to keep real life off of the internet.

If it really was that personal, you would never have posted in the first place.

You are just as bad as folks getting fired for Facebook comments and then blaming Facebook.

If it really isn't that highly/secretive, you would have posted. Soliciting PM's to answer your question just shows you can't live off of the internet.

[Denverfriend]

I decide what is appropriate for myself to put out there, as long as I am not breaking the rules of Greekchat.

It is not extremely secretive, but I don't know if anyone I know might read this board, which is why I would want to keep it in a PM.

I have not given any information about the situation at all, so it could not bite me like the people getting fired from facebook. (Edit: And I wouldn't blame facebook, it would be my own fault for putting it out there.)

I can live off the internet, which is why I said it's ok and not a big deal if no one helps me. I just thought I would try, for a different perspective.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Denverfriend

I decide what is appropriate for myself to put out there, as long as I am not breaking the rules of Greekchat.

It is not extremely secretive, but I don't know if anyone I know might read this board, which is why I would want to keep it in a PM.

I have not given any information about the situation at all, so it could not bite me like the people getting fired from facebook. (Edit: And I wouldn't blame facebook, it would be my own fault for putting it out there.)

I can live off the internet, which is why I said it's ok and not a big deal if no one helps me. I just thought I would try, for a different perspective.

Check your PM.

[BluPhire]

Originally Posted by Denverfriend

I decide what is appropriate for myself to put out there, as long as I am not breaking the rules of Greekchat.

It is not extremely secretive, but I don't know if anyone I know might read this board, which is why I would want to keep it in a PM.

I have not given any information about the situation at all, so it could not bite me like the people getting fired from facebook. (Edit: And I wouldn't blame facebook, it would be my own fault for putting it out there.)

I can live off the internet, which is why I said it's ok and not a big deal if no one helps me. I just thought I would try, for a different perspective.

If you can live off the internet, quit posting stupidity like this.

I mean seriously you are saying it isn't secretive, yet you soliciting PM's. Dude get a life. Either it ain't secretive and you want to post it because you want conversation. Or you don't post at all (even soliciting for PM's) because you don't want people who are involved knowing you are putting their business out on the internet. Nobody knows you. We are strangers to you. Either post or get off the net.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

LOL. There's nothing self-explanatory about it.

*like*

Originally Posted by Denverfriend

It is not extremely secretive, but I don't know if anyone I know might read this board, which is why I would want to keep it in a PM.

If you can't even post it for fear of who may read it, then it qualifies as extremely secretive. Dolt.