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Old 02-27-2011, 08:12 PM
dnall dnall is offline
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...and trying to reel this back to constructive...

I don't know much about co-ed fraternities, but organizations I can talk about.

You got six members, which means you don't have an organization at all.

I assume you have some kind of purpose, probably community service based on some principles or other. Clearly the people involved now have lost their commitment and the group in turn has lost their bearings.

Talk to whomever individually about the way forward. Have yourself a come to Jesus meeting. This is what we're about, we're going to get back to that, there's no halfway. Are you in or out. Sign this personal contract committing to XYZ (rules & requirements with consequences, but also flowery soul inspiring stuff).

You'll then have 2-4 people rather than 6, but at least they'll actually want to be there. At that point you forget that it's a 22yo org & start over recruiting like it's brand new. You should have 20 people by the end of the semester and have completed a couple projects - use your projects as recruiting, be creative & network.

That'd be my advice anyway. Good luck to you!
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